H E R E?
. . . can you take it?
Talk about it:
Why Are We Here?
A) We are here to get make money and spend it on a bunch of stuff.
. . . wait a minute -
I thought YOU knew where we were going!
B) We are here to become as well-liked, respected, famous, powerful, or as high on the ladder of social status as possible.
C) We are here to kind of float through and enjoy the trip, and have as much "fun" as possible (a.k.a. "The Universe As Our Personal Disneyland" perspective).
D) "The very purpose of existence is to reconcile the glowing opinion we hold of ourselves with the appalling things that other people think about us." - Quentin Crisp
E) We are here to find the perfect guy or girl, make them fall madly in love with us, and live happily ever after. ( - or, live happily ever after at least until it's time to go...).
F) We are here to have sex. Maybe as much as possible. (See Option C).
G) We are here to be a success at . . . something.
H) We are here to work like dogs, pay taxes, get old, get sick, and die, without ever knowing why.
I) We are here to save the planet ( . . . and why is the planet here?)
J) "Don't ask." (Translation: We are here for some purpose or reason, and we don't know what that is, and will never know - except for the fact that somehow we think we know that this "purpose" or "reason" involves it being very important to not ask ourselves why we are here).
K) We are here to have children (. . . and . . . why are they here?)
L) We are here to pass on our genes ( . . . and why are they, our genes, here?)
M) We are here for reasons we don't understand and never will, so we're supposed to just blindly stumble through life trying to do the best we can anyways.
N) We are here to set goals and achieve them . . . and then set more and achieve them, and so on, ad infinitum or until we die.
O) We're here to evolve. (Evolve into what? )
P) Behaviorism: we are here to seek pleasure and avoid pain (and why is pain and pleasure here?)
Q) Freud: to be torn between our instincts and societal expectations - hopefully reaching some sort of compromise - until we die.
P) We are here to love others. (. . . and why are others here?)
R) We are here to face and overcome whatever challenges life throws at us.
S) We are here to try to live a secure and comfortable life, typically in spite of not knowing why we're tasked with this burden of always trying to find comfort and security, and rarely actually finding it.
T) The "Economy of Happiness": We are here to squeeze the maximum amount of fun and happiness possible into our lives before we die (a.k.a. maximum hedonism)
U) We are here to distract ourselves from asking why we are here.
V) We are here to prepare ourselves for the moment of death.
W) We don't know why we're here, we'll never know why we're here - and we absolutely know that for sure.
X) We are here to breed.
Y) We are here because of "the Plan" (and what is "the Plan"?)
Z) We are here to survive - meaning, keep our bodies alive - for as long as possible, even though we're going to die anyway.
AA) We are here for no reason or purpose at all. It's all meaningless (nihilism).
BB) We are here for "a reason" (and either ask "what exactly is that reason?" or just leave it at that)
CC) We are here to screw around and try to have a few good times before we hit the grave.
DD) Psychological: We are here to work on ourselves, overcome our neurosis, understand our childhood, become a self-individualized human, release our "inner children," unleash our repressed emotions, and free up our impulses.
EE) We are here to find a game worth playing, and playing it to the absolute best of our ability.
FF) We are here because we have a duty and mission to carry out.
GG) We are here for reasons we do not understand, but we can understand if we decide to figure them out and do the work necessary to do so.
HH) We are here to overcome the world.
II) We are here to overcome ourselves.
JJ) We are here to promote health instead of disease, wealth instead of poverty, wisdom instead of ignorance, love instead of indifference, justice instead of injustice, peace instead of conflict, etc.
KK) All we need to worry about is not doing what we're not here for; then what we are here for will take care of itself.
LL) We are here to find certain people who really did know why they were here (such as perhaps Buddha, Jesus, Mohammed, Lao-Tzu, and others) - and follow their lead.
MM) We are here for something nobody else can tell us, but we can find for ourselves, like a secret code inside ourselves that only we can crack.
NN) We are here to change the world, or bring about "heaven on earth."
OO) Erich Fromm: "Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself."
PP) The Matrix: We are for food, or so that our vitality or life-force can be drained to feed parasites we can't see and know nothing about.
QQ) We are here to perfect ourselves.
RR) We are here to attain total spiritual enlightenment.
SS) We are here to survive/find immortality (Editor's Note: Isn't this a circular argument? Say we do find a way to scientifically make us capable of surviving forever, or even much longer than we do now . . . so what? As the quote goes . . . "Many folks long for immortality who don't know what to do with themselves on a Sunday afternoon...") - and if the purpose of this life is to find a way to live another one . . . what's the purpose of that one?)
TT) We are here to try to find the key to immortal life before our time here runs out.
UU) Shakespeare: "All that lives must die, passing through nature to eternity." - Hamlet, Act 1, Scene 2 (So, we are here to pass through nature to eternity)
VV) We are here to find the "Holy Grail", the "Philosopher's Stone", to become enlightened or to find ultimate knowledge.
WW) We are here to do battle, either to fight evil on the side of good, or to fight good on the side of evil.
XX) We are here to to learn how to love each another. (and what is "love"?); "We are all born for love; it is the principle of existence and its only end." - Benjamin Disraeli
YY) We are here to find God (and what is "God"?)
ZZ) We are here to be heroes, to fight the dragon and save the beautiful princess. (and the "dragon" is our own "ego," the princess is our own "soul").
AAA) We are here to find real happiness.
BBB) Man is here to learn how to love woman properly.
CCC) Woman is here to learn how to love man properly.
DDD) In some huge way, we are asleep; we are here to wake up.
EEE) We are here because God is playing hide-and-seek with himself.
FFF) The world is a prison where we have been given a life sentence; we are here either to 1) try to make ourselves more comfortable or enjoy our stay in the prison, or 2) try to escape.
GGG) We are here to put up cool web sites about finding "IT".
HHH) We are here to spend our lives for some form of noble cause, pursuit, or mission, as in, we are here to be soldiers of God.
III) We are here to develop our character.
JJJ) We are here to overcome suffering
KKK) Martin Luther King: "If a man hasn't discovered something he's willing to die for, he isn't fit to live."
LLL) Groundhog Day: We are here to basically live the same day, over and over again, until we get it right. (See also Buddhism/Hinduism: We are here to be reincarnated, over and over and over again, until we become "enlightened.")
MMM) Christianity: We are here to find and experience some form of "salvation," or to get to heaven, which is somewhere close to or with God; we are here to "love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might," and "love thy neighbor as thyself;" we are here to work to establish "The Kingdom of Heaven" on Earth.
NNN) Yoga: "The sole object of life is the attainment of Self-realization or Absolute Freedom. Devote every minute of your life for this grand attainment." - Swami Sivananda
OOO) Barry Long: "Is it intelligent to ignore the possibility that the sweetest natural physical sensation two human beings can produce together on earth (sex) signifies a reality?"
PPP) We are here to figure out, or remember, who we really are.
QQQ). We are here to find "IT".
RRR) George Bernard Shaw: "This is the true joy in life - being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you consistent."
SSS) Peter Deunov: "We have come to earth to learn to love God who has created and loves us. When we learn how to love Him we shall understand the meaning of our life, and our relationships with others will become clear."
TTT) We are here to find out why we're here.
UUU) Tagore: "The infinite seeks the intimate presence of the finite, the finite to disappear in the infinite. I do not know whose scheme this is . . . that the bound should be on a search after freedom - freedom asking to be housed in the bound."
VVV) Albert Einstein: "A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty."
(- sounds great . . . but how?)
WWW) Léon Bloy: "Every man is on earth to symbolize something he is ignorant of and to realize a particle or a mountain of the invisible materials that will serve to build the City of God."
XXX) Charles K. Bellinger: "Human beings fall into traps on the right side or on the left side when they live in the finite to the exclusion of the infinite, or when they seek freedom to the exclusion of necessity, or when they live in the temporal while ignoring the eternal. The goal of human life, then, is the difficult task of holding together these paradoxical elements in a creative synthesis. The highest and truest pathway in life can be compared to walking along a narrow mountain ridge. It is always possible to fall off the ridge to the right or to the left, but the successful walker continues forward maintaining a balance."
YYY) ""The meaning of life lies in the quest for something eternally
unachievable: divine perfection. For only the impossible is real,
and what is furthest from us is in fact closest to us. This would
seem to be absurd, but it isn’t, for things are not as we see
Those who reach for the unachievable, the perfection of God,
remembering that they were created in his image, are the ones who
live in reality. Since they have placed the Creator at the centre
of their life, he takes part in what they do, in everything they
bring into being. He is present in their every thought and
feeling. They were thinking it was impossible to meet God, to
become one with him, but in fact this meeting, this union,
happens every day, without their even realizing it! Every day,
they grow in faith, hope and love; every day, light and peace
increase within them."
- Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov
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Appendix: Okay, so why ARE we here?
So, there's this idea - an idea that the purpose of life as a human being here on earth can be known, and that "mission" can be "accomplished.".
Umm . . . so how, exactly?
Well, LiveReal isn't in the business of giving answers, even if we could. We're more in the business of all of us, individually and collectively, seeking out our own answers.
At any rate, whenever we do eventually dig into this sort of question deliberately, the typical scenario runs something like this: we look at the question, wrestle with it for a few seconds, pick an answer more or less at random (a.k.a. "out of our arse") - usually whatever is most comfortable to believe in at the moment (such as "to have fun" if we're young, "to love" if we're horny, "to get rich" if we're greedy, and so on) - assume that it's correct (or at least the best we can do for now), and then live out our lives based on that answer. Then we repeat this same process many times as life goes on, slightly amending our answer to fit in a little better with whatever experiences we bump into along the way.
But this is also a question that has been asked by many people for a long time.
So, have any of them found an answer? Is there a "right" answer? Have we made any progress is this endeavor? Or does this kind of question simply get asked, over and over again, with each person starting all over again from scratch? Or is there such a thing as "progress" in this area, the same way there is "progress" in physics, chemistry, or math?
At any rate, regardless of what other people have found, we all still have no choice but to answer this one - even if it resonates with what others have said - for ourselves.
And how do we do that? Well . . . of course, that's the hard part.
But if we are here for a reason or purpose, then it means that we probably have some sense that we ought to act a certain way, or live our lives in such a way that we're singing in tune or living in harmony with that purpose. Or if we decide that that purpose involves something like "love" or "God" or solving the problem of life or attaining spiritual enlightenment or even just trying to ease a little bit of suffering here and there, then there may be some new realms to explore in those areas as well.
And we also suggest some look-for-yourself Practical Experiments you can do on your own, or perhaps checking out Modern Spiritual Giants: A User's Guide, digging through some of the LiveReal Products, and if you want to talk with others about it, the LiveReal Discussion Board is a good place to start.
are only four question of value in life, Don Octavio.
Of what is the spirit made?
What is worth living for?
And what is worth dying for?
The answer to each is the same:
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