T H E P R O B L E M O F L I F E
A Thought Experiment
"...to succeed at last,
after a long process of elimination,
in reaching the heart of the problem..."
- Hubert Benoit
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One way of saying it is this:
Wealth,
fame,
alcohol, drugs . . .
movies . . . sports . . . bad television . . .
shopping . . .
all, in a way, are "solutions" to "The Problem of Life."
Depression, anxiety, panic attacks, phobias, eating disorders, general neurosis and so on are all reactions to "The Problem of Life."
First of all, "the problem of life" rarely comes up in conversation.
What comes up in conversations are the problems - emphasis on the "s" - of life. There's not just one problem, there are many.

The real tree of life.
After all, on the surface, there actually does seem to be thousands of different problems in life. Paying bills is a problem. Working a job involves lots of problems. Making good grades in school is nothing but a series of solving problems. Being popular, respected, having a good social life is a problem. Dating involves massive avalanches of problems. Getting married, raising kids, growing up, finding happiness, and just making it through the day . . . we seem to be constantly struggling against a constant, unending tide of problems.
Actually, though, in reality, beneath the surface, behind the appearance . . .
- perhaps there aren't really a
million problems.
There's only one. One Big One.
Picture a tree. Every branch, every
leaf, every flower . . . one tree has thousands of them - way
too many for us to even think about keeping track of.
Every leaf is a problem - and so,
there are thousands of different problems.
But if we look at it another way,
all those thousands of leaves are connected to branches . . .
and if you trace them all back far enough . . . they eventually
all connect back together, and unite into the trunk of the tree.
All the separate forms of leaves and branches unite into one single,
complete, unity of the trunk.
And maybe problems work the same
way.
After all, this is what most spiritual
traditions (which are presumably the best wisdom us human have
available to us) say in different ways.

The Many and the One: Trees can groove philosophically, too.
Judaism, Christianity, and Islam
say in various ways that "the basic problem" is that
we dropped into a fallen/sinful state, far away from heaven/God,
and so we need to find our way back (salvation).
Buddhists and Hindus say that we've
been seduced into a state of ignorance or illusion, and so we
need to pursue enlightenment.
Even Taoism, the most apparently
easygoing and non-dogmatic of the major religions, offers advice
on getting back in tune with the "Tao" - presuming,
then, that we've lost touch with it, and that getting "back
in tune" with it is worth doing.
Even
non-religious folks seem to agree that there's at least
a problem, even if they disagree about the form it takes.
Some insist, for example, that the basic problem is environmental
destruction (fall from Eden), and our most important mission is
to restore it (environmental salvation). Some believe that the
biggest problem is the discrepancies between the rich and the
poor (fall from grace), and we need to create equality (one version
of heaven). Some folks believe the basic problem lies in various
world conditions - hunger, poverty, disease, famine, etc - and
the basic solution lies in eradicating these. Some believe that
the other team, the other political party, the other opponent
within the same political party - is the problem, and the solution
lies in beating them.
So, folks might disagree on what
form of suffering the problem
takes, but one basic axiom that almost everyone seems to agree
on is that, in some way, there is a problem.
Every story
- every movie, film, sitcom, television drama, play - starts with
a problem - a "fall from grace" or some kind of exile
from happiness
- and then tells the story of characters struggling to find a
solution.
| Every movie, every sports game,
every piece of music, then, could be seen
as a way of shrinking "The Problem" down into something
that's bite-sized, something we can get our hands around,
something we can handle. We might not be able to work directly
on solving the problems of the universe . . . but we can work
on scoring more touchdowns than the other team. |
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And,
if there actually is only one problem instead of many .
. . then perhaps if you solve that core problem -"The Problem"
- then all the other problems take care of themselves. If you
chop down the tree, then all the leaves naturally come with it.
Again, many traditions claim that
this is the case: in Christianity, the single most important,
most significant problem is salvation, or "finding your way
to heaven." Nothing else really matters. In Hinduism and
Buddhism, finding enlightenment is truly the only thing that matters.
Or as Einstein said, "I want to know God's thoughts. The
rest are details."
The idea can be seductive. After
all, if we are living in "The
Matrix", it might seem as though we have many different
problems - our jobs, our relationships, our health, etc. But actually,
the only real problem is . . . we're in The Matrix. All the other
problems are actually illusions.
Or, imagine having a dream where
you're being chased by zombies,
and you're almost out of ammunition, and there's no food or water,
and your best friend is close to being discovered . . . there
seem to be many, many serious problems. But in fact, there is
only one real problem: you are asleep, and dreaming. As soon as
you wake up, all the other problems - the zombies, the ammunition,
the food and water, your friend - all vanish.
That is what traditions describe
as real salvation or "enlightenment".
Many
folks say there is a solution to "The Problem
of Life": call it "enlightenment,"
call it "salvation," call it "moksha," "nirvikalpa
samadhi," "waking up from the dream of life" or
"escaping from The
Matrix" - many folks say that such a thing exists, is
real, is attainable, and is worth striving for.
In fact, many folks say that it's
not just what we should be striving for, it's what we all already
are striving for, whether we're aware of it or not. We're
all searching for "IT" - and typically, all we find
are substitutes. We aren't satisfied with these substitutes, so
we keep searching. And we'll keep searching until we actually
do find "IT" - or become "enlightened.".
So
if there is such a thing as "enlightenment,"
and it does mean "solving the problem of life" - does
that mean that, literally, all the mundane errands, tasks, and
difficulties of life magically vanish?
No. If enlightenment is real, then
by all accounts, the mundane day-to-day issues of life still continue:
enlightened folks still have to eat, drink, wash, and if they're
living in an apartment, pay bills. (In some cases, some mundane
problems are taken care of by students, devotees, fans, and groupies
. . . but the problems are still there.) In fact, it's a tempting
error - called the "spiritual bypass" school of thought
- to believe that achieving spiritual enlightenment will automatically
erase the mundane problems of the world - finding friends, paying
bills, and so on. It won't.
The difference is that the day-to-day
problems lose their urgency and significance. Once the Big Picture
is taken care of, these more minor problems lose their life-or-death
importance. They become minor details, tiny brush-strokes to paint
as polish on a fully completed canvas. The Big Stuff is accomplished,
over, fixed, completed . . . and the rest is small stuff.
This
is a total contrast to our normal way of doing things.
Typically, paying bills is a life-or-death
matter. Getting rich is a life-or-death matter. Becoming famous,
finding love, becoming successful all becomes a life-or-death
matter.
In this sense, we lose perspective,
and endow insignificant things with an undeserved importance,
infuse unimportant things with a life-or-death urgency, and all
too often, treat truly significant matters as if they're insignificant.
We get things upside-down and inside-out. We get ourselves all
worked up and stressed
out about things that ultimate don't matter.
But when we take care of, and resolve,
the things that ultimately do matter . . . then the rest we can
just really enjoy.
So
fame is one solution to the problem of life. Alcohol
is another solution to the problem of life. Drugs
are another solution. So is sports. And drama.
And "love"
- they can all be understood as various solutions to "The
Problem of Life."
Why are we drawn so irresistibly
towards sports, drama, fame, alcohol, drugs, and love? Because
they are small, bite-sized versions of "solutions" to
the problem of life.
These "solutions" all
look different on the surface, but they are all the same underneath:
they all involve a state of discontent, a certain amount of tension
and opposition, and a release - an "ahhhh" of miniature
release.
But of course, these "solutions"
are, as we often discover the hard way, temporary, short-lasting,
miniature, and only "imitation" solutions. In a way,
they're phonies. After we watch the sports and drama, after we
imbibe the alcohol and drugs, after we find the love and eventually
find it wanting . . . we still hunger for more. That wasn't "IT".
So,
is there a real solution? If the above answers
are stand-ins, imposter, phony solutions . . . is there a real,
permanent, longer-lasting one? Is there really an answer to "the
problem of life"? Is "spiritual enlightenment"
something real, or is it just another fable?
And if we do get "spiritually
enlightened," would that help the famine, poverty, hunger,
disease, famine in the world? Would that help the environment?
Would that ease other folks' real suffering?
Would that mean I don't have to pay my bills, work a crummy job,
sit in traffic? If we're all enlightened and just sit around playing
harps all day . . . wouldn't that be boring? What would
we do then?
And then, of course, how does a
person become enlightened? It seems like plenty of people
talk about enlightenment, a few people actually seek it, and very
few claim to find it . . . so, if the concept of this is interesting
to us . . . what are we supposed to do? How?
This
is what we,
your trusty and faithful LiveReal Agents,
are working on.
We think these are all pretty groovy
questions to explore, to say the least. And we plan on continuing
our explorations.
Because of course, like you know,
and like most folks like to remind us about . . . it's not really
as neat as this. The concept of "Spiritual Enlightenment"
sounds great, "getting free of suffering"
sounds great, and it all might works as a nice, neat, tidy concept
wrapped in a nice, neat package.
But it's not - life is pretty messy,
and doesn't fit into tidy packages. At the same time, we need
these tidy packages, we need models we can use, and maps
we can use to travel safely . . . and perhaps even reach our
destination. After all, even finding and making halfway accurate
models and maps is quite a challenge nowadays, and quite an adventure.
And actually traveling, actually
using the map
and walking the territory
is a whole other adventure . . .
So stay tuned . . .
Appendix
"To be, or not to be:
that is the question..."
- William Shakespeare
"To be, and not to be:
that is the answer..."
- Douglass Harding
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