Why Are We Here?
We're born. We live. We die. But why?
Why Are We Here?
A) We are here to get make money and spend it on a bunch of stuff.
B) We are here to become as well-liked, respected, famous, powerful, or as high on the ladder of social status as possible.
D) "The very purpose of existence is to reconcile the glowing opinion we hold of ourselves with the appalling things that other people think about us." - Quentin Crisp
E) We are here to find the perfect guy or girl, make them fall madly in love with us, and live happily ever after. ( - or, "happily ever after" at least until it's time to clock out.)
F) We are here to have sex. Maybe as much as possible. (Go to Option C).
G) We are here to be a success at...something.
H) We are here to work like dogs, pay taxes, get old, get sick, and die, without ever knowing why.
I) We are here to save the planet (...and why is the planet here?)
J) "Don't ask." (Translation: We are here for some purpose or reason, and we don't know what that is, and will never know - except for the fact that somehow we think we know that this "purpose" or "reason" involves it being very important to not ask ourselves why we are here).
K) We are here to have children (...and, why are they here?)
L) We are here to pass on our genes (...and why are they (our genes) here?)
M) We are here for reasons we don't understand and never will, so we're supposed to just blindly stumble through life trying to do the best we can. (Aka, we're essentially mole-people.)
N) We are here to set goals and achieve them...and then set more and achieve them, and so on, ad infinitum, or until we die.
O) We're here to evolve. (Evolve into what, exactly? And why?)
P) Behaviorism: we are here to seek pleasure and avoid pain (and why is pain and pleasure here?)
Q) Freud: to be torn between our instincts and societal expectations - hopefully reaching some sort of compromise - until we die.
P) We are here to love others. (...and why are others here?)
R) We are here to face and overcome whatever challenges life throws at us.
S) We are here to try to live a secure and comfortable life, typically in spite of not knowing why we're tasked with this burden of always trying to find comfort and security, and rarely actually finding it.
T) The "Economy of Happiness": We are here to squeeze the maximum amount of fun and happiness possible into our lives before we die (a.k.a. maximum hedonism)
U) We are here to distract ourselves from asking why we are here.
V) We are here to prepare ourselves for the moment of death.
W) We don't know why we're here, we'll never know why we're here - and we absolutely know that for sure.
X) We are here to breed.
Y) We are here because of "the Plan" (and what is "the Plan"?)
Z) We are here to survive - meaning, keep our physical bodies alive - for as long as possible, even though we're going to die anyway.
BB) We are here for "a reason" (and either ask "what exactly is that reason?" or just leave it at that)
CC) We are here to screw around and try to have a few good times before we hit the grave.
DD) Psychological: We are here to work on ourselves, overcome our neurosis, understand our childhood, become a self-individualized human, release our "inner children," unleash our repressed emotions, and free up our impulses.
EE) We are here to find a game worth playing, and playing it to the absolute best of our ability.
FF) We are here because we have a duty and mission to carry out.
GG) We are here for reasons we do not understand, but we can understand if we decide to figure them out and do the work necessary to do so.
HH) We are here to overcome the world.
II) We are here to overcome ourselves.
JJ) We are here to promote health instead of disease, wealth instead of poverty, wisdom instead of ignorance, love instead of indifference, justice instead of injustice, peace instead of conflict, etc.
KK) All we need to worry about is not doing what we're not here for; then what we are here for will take care of itself.
LL) We are here to find certain people who really did know why they were here (such as perhaps Buddha, Jesus, Mohammed, Lao-Tzu, and others) - and follow their lead.
MM) We are here for something nobody else can tell us, but we can find for ourselves, like a secret code inside ourselves that only we can crack.
NN) We are here to change the world, or bring about "heaven on earth."
OO) Erich Fromm: "Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself."
PP) The Matrix: We are for food, or so that our vitality or life-force can be drained to feed parasites we can't see and know nothing about.
QQ) We are here to perfect ourselves.
RR) We are here to attain total spiritual enlightenment.
SS) We are here to survive/find immortality (Editor's Note: Isn't this a circular argument? Say we do find a way to scientifically make us capable of surviving forever, or even much longer than we do now... so what? As the quote goes..."Many folks long for immortality who don't know what to do with themselves on a Sunday afternoon...") - and if the purpose of this life is to find a way to live another one... what's the purpose of that one?)
TT) We are here to try to find the key to immortal life before our time here runs out.
UU) Shakespeare: "All that lives must die, passing through nature to eternity." - Hamlet, Act 1, Scene 2 (So, we are here to pass through nature to eternity)
VV) We are here to find the "Holy Grail", the "Philosopher's Stone", to become enlightened or to find ultimate knowledge.
WW) We are here to do battle, either to fight evil on the side of good, or to fight good on the side of evil.
ZZ) We are here to be heroes, to fight the dragon and save the beautiful princess. (and the "dragon" is our own "ego," the princess is our own "soul").
BBB) We're all here to learn how to love each other properly.
CCC) There is no "why." It just is. This just happens; it's all we know and all we ever can know. So, might as well enjoy the ride the best we can.
DDD) In some huge way, we are asleep; we are here to wake up.
EEE) We are here because God is playing hide-and-seek with himself.
FFF) The world is a prison where we have been given a life sentence; we are here either to 1) try to make ourselves more comfortable or enjoy our stay in the prison, or 2) try to escape.
GGG) We are here to put up cool websites about finding "IT".
HHH) We are here to spend our lives for some form of noble cause, pursuit, or mission. (and what is "noble"?)
III) We are here to develop our character.
JJJ) We are here to overcome suffering
KKK) Martin Luther King: "If a man hasn't discovered something he's willing to die for, he isn't fit to live."
LLL) Groundhog Day: We are here to basically live the same day, over and over again, until we get it right. (See also Buddhism/Hinduism: We are here to be reincarnated, over and over and over again, until we become "enlightened.")
MMM) Christianity: We are here to find and experience some form of "salvation," or to get to heaven, which is somewhere close to or with God; we are here to "love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might," and "love your neighbor as yourself;" we are here to work to establish "The Kingdom of Heaven" on Earth.
NNN) Yoga: "The sole object of life is the attainment of Self-realization or Absolute Freedom. Devote every minute of your life for this grand attainment." - Swami Sivananda
OOO) Barry Long: "Is it intelligent to ignore the possibility that the sweetest natural physical sensation two human beings can produce together on earth (sex) signifies a reality?"
PPP) We are here to figure out, or remember, who we really are.
QQQ) We are here to find "IT".
RRR) George Bernard Shaw: "This is the true joy in life - being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you consistent."
SSS) Peter Deunov: "We have come to earth to learn to love God who has created and loves us. When we learn how to love Him we shall understand the meaning of our life, and our relationships with others will become clear."
TTT) We are here to find out why we're here.
UUU) Michel de Montaigne: "Our duty is to compose our character, not to compose books, to win not battles and provinces, but order and tranquillity in our conduct. Our great and glorious masterpiece is to live properly."
VVV) Tagore: "The infinite seeks the intimate presence of the finite, the finite to disappear in the infinite. I do not know whose scheme this is . . . that the bound should be on a search after freedom - freedom asking to be housed in the bound."
WWW) Albert Einstein: "A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty." (- sounds great . . . but how? More from Big Al here.)
XXX) Léon Bloy: "Every man is on earth to symbolize something he is ignorant of and to realize a particle or a mountain of the invisible materials that will serve to build the City of God."
YYY) Charles K. Bellinger: "Human beings fall into traps on the right side or on the left side when they live in the finite to the exclusion of the infinite, or when they seek freedom to the exclusion of necessity, or when they live in the temporal while ignoring the eternal. The goal of human life, then, is the difficult task of holding together these paradoxical elements in a creative synthesis. The highest and truest pathway in life can be compared to walking along a narrow mountain ridge. It is always possible to fall off the ridge to the right or to the left, but the successful walker continues forward maintaining a balance."
ZZZ) "The meaning of life lies in the quest for something eternally unachievable: divine perfection. For only the impossible is real, and what is furthest from us is in fact closest to us. This would seem to be absurd, but it isn’t, for things are not as we see them. Those who reach for the unachievable, the perfection of God, remembering that they were created in his image, are the ones who live in reality. Since they have placed the Creator at the centre of their life, he takes part in what they do, in everything they bring into being. He is present in their every thought and feeling. They were thinking it was impossible to meet God, to become one with him, but in fact this meeting, this union, happens every day, without their even realizing it! Every day, they grow in faith, hope and love; every day, light and peace increase within them." - Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov
A4) None of the Above
B4) All of the Above
C4) Some of the above _______________________
D4) Other __________________________
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"Okay, so why ARE we here?
So, there's one idea:
- an idea that "every person here on earth has a purpose." Every person is here for a reason; everyone has a job to do; they're on a mission. And that mission can be known. And that mission can either be "accomplished," or not.
Umm...so how, does this all work, exactly?
For now, we could treat this idea as a "hypothesis" that we can test.
And should test.
One way we could test it could be by assuming it to be true for a while, and seeing what happens. Does it clarify things, or make things better? Or the opposite?
Or, you can treat the opposite as a "testable hypothesis." Assume you're here for no reason, just for a little while, and check the results. Does this clarify things, or make them better? Or the opposite?
It's worth looking into. We think even putting some serious effort into this might not be a bad idea.
We here at LiveReal we aren't necessarily in the business of giving answers, even if we could.
(After all, if we gave you an answer, why should you believe us, or anybody else?)
In these realms, there are ways that each of us has no choice but to seek out our own answers. Even if we check with others and get help along the way.
At any rate, whenever anyone digs into this sort of question deliberately, the typical scenario runs something like this:
We look at the question, wrestle with it for a few seconds, and pick an answer that seems right at the time - sometimes for good reasons, sometimes not.
Sometimes the answers we decide on at the time are a little too easy. For example, we might decide that our purpose in life is "to have fun" if we're young, "to love" if we've fallen for a certain hottie nearby, "to get rich" if we want lots of money, and so on.
We then tend to assume that it's correct, or at least the best we can do for now, and then live out our lives based on that answer.
And we might operate for decades based on that core decision.
We might repeat this same process many times as life goes on, slightly amending our answer to fit in a little better with whatever experiences we bump into along the way.
But is there a better way?
This is a question that has been asked by many people for a long time.
So, have any of them found an answer? Is there a "right" answer? Have we made any progress is this endeavor? Or does this kind of question simply get asked, over and over again, with each person starting all over again from scratch? Or is there such a thing as "progress" in this area, the same way there is "progress" in physics, chemistry, or math?
This much seems clear: we have to answer this. No one can really do it for us.
And how do we do that, well?
At this point, maybe it's a good time to go back to another, really basic question:
It seems like knowing yourself is a good idea. Or, actually: not knowing yourself seems like a pretty bad idea.
So, getting to know yourself could be a way to spend time that isn't a total waste. (But how? We explore some of that here.)
If there is some kind of meaning to all this, and if we are here for a reason or purpose, then it means that we probably have some sense that we ought to act a certain way, or live our lives in such a way that we're singing in tune or living in harmony with that purpose.
Or if we decide that that purpose involves something like "love" or "God" or solving the problem of life or attaining spiritual enlightenment or even just trying to ease a little bit of suffering here and there, then there may be some new realms to explore in those areas as well. Maybe by running a few experiments yourself, which might yield some fruit along the lines of experiential spirituality or antifragile happiness.
"There are only four questions of value in life, Don Octavio.
What is sacred?
Of what is the spirit made?
What is worth living for?
And what is worth dying for?
The answer to each is the same: only love."
from Don Juan de Marco by Francis Ford Coppola/Jeremy Leven